| EROTIC SPANKINGS |
PUNISHMENT SPANKINGS |
| Slow, graduate build-up |
No build-up; hard strokes from the start |
| Mild-to-moderate strokes |
Hard, painful strokes |
| Slow pacing to allow the receiver to assimilate the sensations from each stroke |
Rapid pacing to maximize the pain |
| Voluntary, cooperative paradigm: Adjusts the intensity and pacing of strokes to the receiver's reactions; stops if the receiver seriously asks to end it |
Coercive paradigm: Ignores the receiver's reaction; continues despite the receiver's objections and requests to stop |
| Goal: Maximum pleasure for the receiver |
Goal: Maximum pain for the receiver |
| End: Sexual pleasure ideally leading to orgasm |
End: Crying, sobbing, howling, bawling |
